It Happened that Thursday

Thursday, October 19, 2017.  3:22 PM. The cheery jingle of an arriving text message caused no alarm. Just another afternoon heading home from campus. Youngest sister checking in. I glance at the phone while the car cools down. Falling below 80 degrees in October is always the hope by Floridians, but jack-o-lanterns turning mushy in … Continue reading It Happened that Thursday

Polish, Postmortem?

  Who thinks about toenails, and more specifically, toenail polish, postmortem? Admittedly (0ddly!), I do. What?!? I can see your face, that quizzical look taking over. Let me explain.... About twenty-five years ago, while taking an A & P class in college, I was invited to participate in a visit to the local chiropractic college, where we'd have the … Continue reading Polish, Postmortem?

Helping Teens Handle Life. And Death.

Being a high school teacher affords me many opportunities to help teens handle life. And loss.  It is at once:  enlightening, encouraging, painful, and honest. Emotions are raw, understanding often limited, and nearly all experiences are 'firsts.' Sadly, some, like birth and death, become second- and third-time experiences for a few.  Being there, with a shoulder, a safe place to cry, … Continue reading Helping Teens Handle Life. And Death.

If Only I Knew

Death. A dreadful event. "Why did it happen?" they asked yesterday. If only I knew. Navigating daily twists and turns with teens broadens my perspective, tickles my funny bone, sharpens details often overlooked in a chaotic adult world, but in the never-ending 'tragedies' teens create, death - a real tragedy - brings pause. And confusion. "Why did it happen?" they ask. … Continue reading If Only I Knew